No one ever became a great leader without first becoming a
great communicator. Great
leaders connect with people on an emotional level every time they speak. Their
words inspire others to achieve more than they ever thought possible. Great
communicators are intentional about it, and there are 10 secrets they rely on
to deliver a powerful message. Put these secrets to work in your communication
and watch your influence soar.
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1. They Know
Their Audience
Great
communicators do not worry about sounding important, showing off their
expertise, or boosting their own egos. Instead, they think about what people
need to hear, and how they can deliver this message so that people will be able
to hear it. This does not mean that leaders tell people what
they want to hear. Quite the opposite—they tell people what is
important for them to know, even if it is bad news.
2. They Are Experts in Body Language
Great
communicators are constantly tracking people’s reactions to their message. They
are quick to notice cues like facial expressions and body language because they
know this is the only feedback many people will give them. Great communicators
use this expertise to tailor their message on the fly and adjust their communication
style as needed.
3. They Are Honest
The
best leaders know that for communication to be effective it has to be real.
They cannot have people parsing every word trying to separate fact from spin.
When great communicators cannot share certain information, they come right out
and say it because makeshift, half-truth answers breed distrust and anxiety. In
good times and bad, honesty builds trust.
4. They Are Authentic
Great
communicators do not try to be someone they are not just, because they have
stepped behind a podium. There is a reason Mark Zuckerberg presented Facebook
to investors in a hoodie and jeans. Great leaders know that when they stay true
to whom they are, people gravitate to their message. They also know the
opposite happens when leaders put on an act.
5. They Speak With Authority
Great
communicators do not try to cover their backs by being ambiguous, ineffective,
or unassertive. Instead, they stick their necks out and speak very directly
about how things are and how they need to be.
6. They Speak To Groups as Individuals
Leaders
rarely have the luxury of speaking to one person at a time. Whether it is a
huddle around a conference table or an overflowing auditorium, great leaders
know how to work the room and make every single person feel as if he or she is
being spoken to directly.
7. They Have Ears (And They Use Them)
Great
leaders know that communication is a two-way street and what they hear is often
more important than what they say. When someone else is speaking, great
communicators are not thinking ahead and planning what they will say next.
Instead, they are actively listening, fully focused on understanding the other
person’s perspective.
8. They Use Phrases Like 'It’s My Fault,' 'I was wrong,' and
'I’m Sorry'
When
great leaders make a mistake, they admit it right away. They do not wait for
someone else to find and point out their blunder. They model accountability for
their words and actions, even when they could have easily “gotten away” with
the mistake. In addition, they do it matter-of-factly, without drama or false
humility.
9. They Solicit Feedback
The
best communicators never assume that the message people heard is the exact same
one they intended to deliver. They check in to verify that their message was
understood correctly, and, if it was not, they do not blame the audience.
Instead, they change things up and try again.
10. They’re Proactive
Leaders
with the best communication skills do not waste time playing catch-up. They are
quick to head off the rumour mill by sharing bad news in a timely manner. They
also give clear, concise goals and directions so people do not waste their time
heading in the wrong direction.
Great
communicators stand out from the crowd. They are honest. They are authentic.
They listen. They excel in communication because they value it, and that is the
critical first step to becoming a great leader.
A version of this article appeared on Entreprenuer.com